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Thursday, 15 January 2015

Sexually Frustrated Teenage Boys

Hello people of the world,

As you can probably tell by the title, today's blog is going to be about sexually frustrated teenage boys. As a teenage girl, I feel as if all boys are very pervy. They always seem to want to swoon around a girls backside or boobs. I find this very uncomfortable and it need to stop! Boys should respect girls and their boundaries and not always want to 'do stuff' with them. 

Let me tell you a story. You know the say no one already, but since then while my boyfriend was drunk he showed me his penis on FaceTime, I shouted at him so it's all good. This week my boyfriend text my friend 'lollypop' and asked her who she like liked. Obviously she text me because he said he's doing a favour for a friend. I wanted to know which pone of his friends like lollypop so I text him and he said he'd only tell me if I gave him a blowjob. I really don't want to do this, it is way past my line, so far last the line that the line is just a dot to it. The thought just scares me! As it should with any young girl! To try and make him tell me I said I wouldn't a few weeks (lying obviously) and he said he will tell me afterwards -_- I was like I reckon you should me now and he just kept saying no. He said 'he respects his friends secrets unless something happens'. I ended up forgetting about it. Until we went back to school and I realised he's told one of his friends what I'd said so now he knows, this made me angry so I didn't talk to either of them for a whole day. Yesterday he did that really cheesy line 'abcefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz' 'you forgot the d' 'you will get that soon' I was like there is no possible way of getting out of this so I just went along with it but after the last part I said 'that's what you think' he was like but you said. Then we had this whole conversation about it and it was fine. I'm still not gonna do it though. :-) 

So boys are really sexually frustrated, it's wrong, they shouldn't be, they should respect a girl. But they don't and there's nothing we can do about except say no. So remember always say no to something you don't want to do and don't let teenage boys force you into things you don't want to. Don't go past your boundaries. 

Please if anyone has any advice for me, I know I give people advice but there is no one to give me any :( so please help, comment below?

Thank youuuuu, 
                        Teenage Dreamer xox


  1. Ik what you mean :( Im sorry im terrible with advice but maybe you should listen to your own advice? Don't be afraid to say no x

    1. I guess that's what I should do, we are too young for all of that. I shouldn't let hi, pressure me into anything I don't want to do. Thank you for that advice ;)
      Teenage Dreamer <3

  2. It's so good to hear this. It's reassuring. Many girls in my year are beginning to do things like blowjobs ect. There was this boy I liked, and he never pushed me into doing anything but in arguments he would always bring up the fact I wouldn't do anything. So i told him to 'fucking leave' then and he apologized ect (haha). They assume you're going to want to do that stuff. I'm stubborn as hell which is a good and bad thing.

    1. The fact that he tried to make me do that is horrible. We shouldn't let boys force us into anything. I;m stubborn too, I'm not going to do anything until I feel I am ready and neither should anyone, Good on you about that boy, he deserved it :)