Sexually Frustrated Teenage Boys

Hello people of the world,

As you can probably tell by the title, today's blog is going to be about sexually frustrated teenage boys. As a teenage girl, I feel as if all boys are very pervy. They always seem to want to swoon around a girls backside or boobs. I find this very uncomfortable and it need to stop! Boys should respect girls and their boundaries and not always want to 'do stuff' with them. 

Let me tell you a story. You know the say no one already, but since then while my boyfriend was drunk he showed me his penis on FaceTime, I shouted at him so it's all good. This week my boyfriend text my friend 'lollypop' and asked her who she like liked. Obviously she text me because he said he's doing a favour for a friend. I wanted to know which pone of his friends like lollypop so I text him and he said he'd only tell me if I gave him a blowjob. I really don't want to do this, it is way past my line, so far last the line that the line is just a dot to it. The thought just scares me! As it should with any young girl! To try and make him tell me I said I wouldn't a few weeks (lying obviously) and he said he will tell me afterwards -_- I was like I reckon you should me now and he just kept saying no. He said 'he respects his friends secrets unless something happens'. I ended up forgetting about it. Until we went back to school and I realised he's told one of his friends what I'd said so now he knows, this made me angry so I didn't talk to either of them for a whole day. Yesterday he did that really cheesy line 'abcefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz' 'you forgot the d' 'you will get that soon' I was like there is no possible way of getting out of this so I just went along with it but after the last part I said 'that's what you think' he was like but you said. Then we had this whole conversation about it and it was fine. I'm still not gonna do it though. :-) 

So boys are really sexually frustrated, it's wrong, they shouldn't be, they should respect a girl. But they don't and there's nothing we can do about except say no. So remember always say no to something you don't want to do and don't let teenage boys force you into things you don't want to. Don't go past your boundaries. 

Please if anyone has any advice for me, I know I give people advice but there is no one to give me any :( so please help, comment below?

Thank youuuuu, 

                        Teenage Dreamer xox

Life Lessons, 5: Say No addition

Hello Guys,

So today as you well know is Christmas Eve, everybody in my household went to pick up my sister from university apart from me as I had my boyfriend coming round. We had the house for ourselves, and at first we watched some friends downstairs and then my step dad came home from work so we went upstairs.I was fine with this and we cuddled and watched movies, and yes there was kissing involved. This was all fine. That was until he stole my pillow and he said 'I will give you your pillow if you see my dick' this I was not fine with. It made me feel uncomfortable so I said no. I fought him for the pillow and got it back in the end. We then cuddled some more. But then about 10 minutes before he had to go he said 'if you want some I will give you some' as everybody knows this is from a video going around. Me being me I said 'go on then' then jumped on the bed with my face in my pillow of which I was holding onto dear life of. He then shut the curtains and was fiddling with his jeans as I could hear. He was just like look then, I just simply said I don't want to. This was all while I had my face buried in my pillow. I was thinking I was going to have to stay there for ages until he put it away. But as soon as he realised I was uncomfortable he put it away. As I was quite light headed from basically smothering myself for innocence I then just pretended to sleep. After about 30 seconds of pretending his Mum pulled up outside and he went home. We kissed goodbye and he text me when he got home as if everything was normal. I think everything is normal.

The thing is I really like this guy and I really want this relationship to last. But I feel I am way too young for this and I don't want to be pressured into anything.

All girls and maybe boys who are reading this; don't you ever let somebody force you into something you don't want to do! You have a right to only go up to the stage that you are comfortable and confident in-SO SAY NO! If you need any extra advice on this comment below and I will definitely reply as this is something I feel very strongly about! We shouldn't be forced into things we really don't want to do! 

Merry Christmas 

                         Teenage Dreamer <3